You can never get enough of what you don’t need because what you don’t need can’t satisfy you. If you need protein and eat Doritos to get the protein you will be eating a lot of Doritos because you don’t need Doritos. They can’t satisfy your need for protein.

I love this because it helps us react to someone’s needs instead of someone’s behavior. Let’s say you have a person that seeks a lot of undue attention. Their behavior can be annoying so we try to change it by saying things like “do this” or “don’t do that… or else…” and in the end, this really doesn’t work. But if we begin to meet their needs they will naturally change. If you give an undue attention seeker love and make them feel like they belong, their behavior will naturally change.

You can never get enough of what you don’t need because what you don’t need can’t satisfy you. I ask you: what do you need? What are your children’s needs? As you meet the needs pf people there behavior will naturally change.